Commitment bitchfits: A Man's tale!!
Parts of this article is very interesting on the Nice guy shit ppl keep talking about ...i'll need to add one more reading article on jerks, and how good they are in securing gorgeous babes!!!!! This article is an actual day to day occurance!!!! I've heard one too many dear thelma sessions, with the same script! So if you see your man react differently 5 years ago & today, theres always some women to be pissed at or thanked :)!!!
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It’s the old story all over again, Society’s rules, that pressures woman not to sleep around, might be a good one because they are ultimately abandond. In college, A lot of woman will sleep around with... the cool exciting top guy's who are attractive and can get a lot of sex.
Afterwards woman are feeling used enz, enz... Even though the choice was their's, to begin with!
The nice guy's listens to them, helps them by listening (because they're too insecure too be cool) Well, these guys end up with no sex or attraction. They are there only for her emotional needs.
They become frustrated, angry and BAM, the nice guy behavior ends, (usually between 24-28 years).
They turn away from woman or they work hard too become confident and exciting...
They suddenly find out that being mean to woman and teasing creates attraction. And when the women is trying to make them behave like nice guy's, because they want them to commit. Guys start distrusting women even more...
So being:
Confident, exiting, money and status = attraction. Being nice = commitment signal
At around 28-35, you see a lot of women fighting relationship wars with former nice guys to make them commit. Those guys don't trust women anymore. And, they don't want to give up the attraction power they worked so hard for.
Their thoughts: she just likes me because she wants children and I have to help by providing sperm and support. Their thinking about all the sexual encounters the woman had before him, when they were working so hard to become more attractive. THEY HEAR ABOUT HOW WOMAN CHANGE SO MUCH AFTER MARRIAGE AND CHILDEREN. THE DECLINE OF SEX DRIVE AND THE BIG FOCUS ON THE CHILDEREN. And they are reluctant to commit.
"The answer to why guy's don't want to commit" in a nutshell
by Fallen Angel
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Sounds like a story of guys going through "de-wussification" (Copywright reserved by Goks) ! Hell, it's like what most guys go through some point in time!!!!
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It’s the old story all over again, Society’s rules, that pressures woman not to sleep around, might be a good one because they are ultimately abandond. In college, A lot of woman will sleep around with... the cool exciting top guy's who are attractive and can get a lot of sex.
Afterwards woman are feeling used enz, enz... Even though the choice was their's, to begin with!
The nice guy's listens to them, helps them by listening (because they're too insecure too be cool) Well, these guys end up with no sex or attraction. They are there only for her emotional needs.
They become frustrated, angry and BAM, the nice guy behavior ends, (usually between 24-28 years).
They turn away from woman or they work hard too become confident and exciting...
They suddenly find out that being mean to woman and teasing creates attraction. And when the women is trying to make them behave like nice guy's, because they want them to commit. Guys start distrusting women even more...
So being:
Confident, exiting, money and status = attraction. Being nice = commitment signal
At around 28-35, you see a lot of women fighting relationship wars with former nice guys to make them commit. Those guys don't trust women anymore. And, they don't want to give up the attraction power they worked so hard for.
Their thoughts: she just likes me because she wants children and I have to help by providing sperm and support. Their thinking about all the sexual encounters the woman had before him, when they were working so hard to become more attractive. THEY HEAR ABOUT HOW WOMAN CHANGE SO MUCH AFTER MARRIAGE AND CHILDEREN. THE DECLINE OF SEX DRIVE AND THE BIG FOCUS ON THE CHILDEREN. And they are reluctant to commit.
"The answer to why guy's don't want to commit" in a nutshell
by Fallen Angel
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Sounds like a story of guys going through "de-wussification" (Copywright reserved by Goks) ! Hell, it's like what most guys go through some point in time!!!!
posted by goh at 9:27 PM
1 Comments:
when were you a wussy? in School?
It takes allot of courage for a women to share her feelings to you, especially when you are always surounded by women!
So Goks, take this advice. At 28, for every girl you bring out on a date with no obligations in mind, do remember that it will come back haunting you when you do decide to get serious!! Dont cry then!!!
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