M , F + the sex inbetween....
Its been a few weeks now that i've lost track between weekdays & weekends as more often then not, i'm working through every weekend! Perhaps its time now to take a break and pen some thoughts on this subject. The last time i had good comment rates was when i blogged on adultery and people who cheat on each other!
Having a less imaginative mood right now, here i am trying to figure out ...why we do things the way we do it ...be it female or male......the question is..if there wasnt something called sexual attraction....do you think we will exist today! Imagine if reproduction was like taking blood cells and mixing them togather to have babies (Yucks!!!!) ...would we have to worry about demistifying men & women? or worrying about being attractive or behaving the way we behave?
Men are ruled by their testosterones which doesnt always bring the best of reputation to its beholder. This very fact is a reason why testosterones are more often then not, added into anabolic steroids which when used in idle can lead to aggresion. Besides aggresion, It also makes you do stupid things at time, much like when you are high on some booze, like when you go up to a lady in a bar and chat up with her when otherwise u'd never get a yard near her!
Booze and hormones can do harm, but you cant live without them. I remember reading a website study that showed that too much testoterones can kill brain cells. Is this the reason why those macho wrestlers are usually drop dead stupid? On the other hand, women hold testesterone accountable for just about any stereotypically masculine behavior, from a love of sports to a reluctance to ask for directions.
On the other hand, if you think about understanding women, i doubt even a PHD will take you through it. In my current assignment, all my peers are pretty senior men who are well established in life and Married. I've seen on too many occasions where they have to put up with all the nagging from their wives when they cant get back on time from a business trip or if they return late from work!
Then they'll go, "you're lucky man, u're not married" ...then i'll go "yeah, the grass is always greener on the other side" ...and i had one interesting reply from a guy who's in his mid 30's and holds a title of VP...he went..my friend...if you think SEX comes freeflow when u're married, think again! U can have the same sex, with different women and avoid all these nagging...so...i tell you, avoid this marriage BS!..well i couldnt agree more ...having regular sex should be the least of the reasons of getting married! coz then when reality sets in, u'll be cracking your head trying to solve her puzzle!
Women on the other hand know they have the edge, especially when they are good looking or popular. They can be canniving, hysterical and apt to change their minds without reason or warning. No thanks to all these Cleo's, her worlds and whatever not megazines that keep perpetuating to them how to keep Men lost and entrapped! They can be extreamely lovely today and extreamely cold tomorrow with absolutely no reason, and no, it's not even PMS!!!!
Isnt god amazing??? He creates 2 sub-species that can be a whole world apart but puts a pre-condition in the form of sexual attraction between them in order to co-habitate and continue the circle of life...that to me is just amazing! ...I'll end this entry with an amazing picture taken during a vacation early this year at this north cost of Egypt!
Having a less imaginative mood right now, here i am trying to figure out ...why we do things the way we do it ...be it female or male......the question is..if there wasnt something called sexual attraction....do you think we will exist today! Imagine if reproduction was like taking blood cells and mixing them togather to have babies (Yucks!!!!) ...would we have to worry about demistifying men & women? or worrying about being attractive or behaving the way we behave?
Men are ruled by their testosterones which doesnt always bring the best of reputation to its beholder. This very fact is a reason why testosterones are more often then not, added into anabolic steroids which when used in idle can lead to aggresion. Besides aggresion, It also makes you do stupid things at time, much like when you are high on some booze, like when you go up to a lady in a bar and chat up with her when otherwise u'd never get a yard near her!
Booze and hormones can do harm, but you cant live without them. I remember reading a website study that showed that too much testoterones can kill brain cells. Is this the reason why those macho wrestlers are usually drop dead stupid? On the other hand, women hold testesterone accountable for just about any stereotypically masculine behavior, from a love of sports to a reluctance to ask for directions.
On the other hand, if you think about understanding women, i doubt even a PHD will take you through it. In my current assignment, all my peers are pretty senior men who are well established in life and Married. I've seen on too many occasions where they have to put up with all the nagging from their wives when they cant get back on time from a business trip or if they return late from work!
Then they'll go, "you're lucky man, u're not married" ...then i'll go "yeah, the grass is always greener on the other side" ...and i had one interesting reply from a guy who's in his mid 30's and holds a title of VP...he went..my friend...if you think SEX comes freeflow when u're married, think again! U can have the same sex, with different women and avoid all these nagging...so...i tell you, avoid this marriage BS!..well i couldnt agree more ...having regular sex should be the least of the reasons of getting married! coz then when reality sets in, u'll be cracking your head trying to solve her puzzle!
Women on the other hand know they have the edge, especially when they are good looking or popular. They can be canniving, hysterical and apt to change their minds without reason or warning. No thanks to all these Cleo's, her worlds and whatever not megazines that keep perpetuating to them how to keep Men lost and entrapped! They can be extreamely lovely today and extreamely cold tomorrow with absolutely no reason, and no, it's not even PMS!!!!
Isnt god amazing??? He creates 2 sub-species that can be a whole world apart but puts a pre-condition in the form of sexual attraction between them in order to co-habitate and continue the circle of life...that to me is just amazing! ...I'll end this entry with an amazing picture taken during a vacation early this year at this north cost of Egypt!
posted by goh at 8:29 PM
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