Sunday, October 22, 2006

Expression of Love...

People express their feelings in many different ways and methods...usually depending on the facets of life they live in.....when you're in your early teens, you'll do anything to impress your women, buy her tons of gifts and flowers ....then as time passes, there are those refined fellows with Shakespeare's verses well embedded in their thoughts that it pours out like a river flowing down the mountain! Some works, some dont. It really depends on the women you're woeing! I've known some women who tell me straight up, please dont waste your money on flowers,it''ll end up at the bin very soon!

Then there are the overly practical & non romantic dudes where poetry and Shakespeare are all but a foreign language. Making a decission to commit the sin is always an overly calculated move, many a time being a victim of one's own hesitation. To these kind of people, the expression of love is very colloquial & non-conventional! Hence i wonder, is there a special breed of women who could understand such men? and accept them for being non-romantic & boring?

My brother got married 5 months back. Its only in the last couple of trips back home that i had sufficient time to investigate the courtship process between him and my sister in law, Malar. Though i knew Malar before my brother met her, somehow due to my non-existance in the country, i lost out at the juicy stories! Romantic he was, so were the other 1/2 dozen mates of mine from school who got married in the last 12 months.

It bugs me if i can even be half as sweet as those ....it will be like going back to preschool of love. Thats left to be seen when the day comes .... either way, i had some new pictures taken from the wedding sent to me by my bro. Here's some.

The couple, after tieing the knot, at the wedding hall

Photo at our house, seated are the couples, wasnt a hard guess aint it. Standing from L-R, Priya(Malar's sister), My sister Gowri, Me and our parents.